The Ten Stage Study rejects rigid expectations, comparisons of our child within to one another which is always harmful

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQ29m2wktD7C7CDEg04za7cN31z3L9bYWPruWoX81PhWfpiNWNNdu2-nAnIYbFAx2wlq6hehxsfMVSjq75W1vLBi_XX2c1K-GtVMAs63WhuTXmU37GoaNHKY7Gcq-8sfqIDMd5GgLjLiI/s1600/1-1-The+Ten+Stages234-007.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQ29m2wktD7C7CDEg04za7cN31z3L9bYWPruWoX81PhWfpiNWNNdu2-nAnIYbFAx2wlq6hehxsfMVSjq75W1vLBi_XX2c1K-GtVMAs63WhuTXmU37GoaNHKY7Gcq-8sfqIDMd5GgLjLiI/s1600/1-1-The+Ten+Stages234-007.jpg" width="129" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">The Ten Stage Study rejects rigid expectations, comparisons of our child within to one another which is always harmful, as no two children will learn to study in the exact same way or at the same rate.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br />We provide nurturing help for those of us who are struggling, making sure it’s done with love, respect and good intentions of fellow children. 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The Ten Stage Study rejects rigid expectations, comparisons of our child within to one another which is always harmful

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Our Child within was born to be curious, sociable, skilful, joyful and empathetic.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgjlEru2O56hpYsrDpWrlp9IRSMIAA0-cEUBAlBOygP4DrIXqMvZtALo8FL1XI0DSRARZfL73DifETwVxhSxZJi5iuBBC3aMSQRjulqOm84xrpj4VLXyFsXqwsOJfzkZ0xN2pjxulWFW_8/s1600/Study+of+Intulexia.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgjlEru2O56hpYsrDpWrlp9IRSMIAA0-cEUBAlBOygP4DrIXqMvZtALo8FL1XI0DSRARZfL73DifETwVxhSxZJi5iuBBC3aMSQRjulqOm84xrpj4VLXyFsXqwsOJfzkZ0xN2pjxulWFW_8/s320/Study+of+Intulexia.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Our Child within was born to be curious, sociable, skilful, joyful and empathetic. Our minds are creative and flexible, our hearts trusting and open. We come into the world with brains designed to learn from our local environment, to interact skilfully with the people and objects that surround them.<br /><br />We enjoy experimenting with new things and investigating whatever interests us. We learn languages and gain new skills easily, as long as we are respected, assisted (when needed) and encouraged.The Ten Stages is a retrograde step backwards to help us refined the voice within .The intuitive voice from childhood and our true liberated self</span>

Our Child within was born to be curious, sociable, skilful, joyful and empathetic.

Our Child within was born to be curious, sociable, skilful, joyful and empathetic. Our minds are creative and flexible, our hearts trustin...

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INTULEXIA Industrial model of education is a form of social engineering that has created many problems in our world.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <br /> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjc7327L1OkAANS6V6wqrRzVCe8POIP-P5yYi-9BiQiVgKNXDMDEHy9J6swLJRFL8vDQ7D-oiziG85hQgFKUvyrm7NaVuyE1N3qM92d1qHg7v58rSmqQPeHG2zPJO8dkSOEqvyOjQz4nVU/s1600/intulexia+rebelle.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="602" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjc7327L1OkAANS6V6wqrRzVCe8POIP-P5yYi-9BiQiVgKNXDMDEHy9J6swLJRFL8vDQ7D-oiziG85hQgFKUvyrm7NaVuyE1N3qM92d1qHg7v58rSmqQPeHG2zPJO8dkSOEqvyOjQz4nVU/s320/intulexia+rebelle.jpg" width="200" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Intulexia industrial model of education is a form of social engineering that has created many problems in our world. It does not fit with the natural way children actually learn. It does not reward creativity, innovation, independence, compassion, intuition, confidence, cooperation and many other essential character strengths, instead fostering social dysfunction, alienation and (for countless people over the last hundred years) a sense of personal failure and incompetence.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">In a somewhat subversive way, the love of learning and natural curiosity that children bring into this world is being re-programmed, so that they can be taught to work hard in order to please others, and to do things for utilitarian reasons, to obtain external rewards and status, rather than intrinsic happiness…<br /><br />With it’s authoritarian emphasis on compliance, competition and testing the factory model is obsolete, undemocratic and de-humanising. It’s a relic of our past, that needs to be dismantled and retired as we move into the 21st century."~Christopher Chase</span></div>

INTULEXIA Industrial model of education is a form of social engineering that has created many problems in our world.

Intulexia industrial model of education is a form of social engineering that has created many problems in our world. It does not fi...

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It is the root of struggle, and thus evolution. No one struggles because he wishes to, but rather because it is his calling in life.

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLK5iaWvUx-E0UgPB5_yOFxZi_rR0fGVB0H3HYxNbphyrbKcWMr_Vk-Yu7mU-AQkwOhcbJ7ysOhWTBsbpRHYASK8cyJm7JHafK7XLMOlza4n0s7tfptjct2rZmTMybmw1rWQwrtsPkndE/s1600/zenquillity+meds.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="960" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLK5iaWvUx-E0UgPB5_yOFxZi_rR0fGVB0H3HYxNbphyrbKcWMr_Vk-Yu7mU-AQkwOhcbJ7ysOhWTBsbpRHYASK8cyJm7JHafK7XLMOlza4n0s7tfptjct2rZmTMybmw1rWQwrtsPkndE/s320/zenquillity+meds.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Dissatisfaction is an excellent sign of mental health and is a prerequisite for survival in recovery groups. Certainly there is nothing more motivating for growth than dissatisfaction. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">It is the root of struggle, and thus evolution. No one struggles because he wishes to, but rather because it is his calling in life. His home is the mountainside. Yet some have been granted their wish of a home on the plateau. They are the upholders of emotional compromise, and the “normal” world idealises them for their beauty and poise. They are the world’s happy people – on the surface.</span></div>

It is the root of struggle, and thus evolution. No one struggles because he wishes to, but rather because it is his calling in life.

Dissatisfaction is an excellent sign of mental health and is a prerequisite for survival in recovery groups. Certainly there is nothing ...

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